by Marlena Fiol | Feb 7, 2020
Here I Am (with my Big Brother) Waving Goodbye Dr. Seuss and Winnie-the-Pooh share the same philosophy on goodbyes, it seems: “Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.” – Dr. Seuss. I believe it’s only those who have suffered unthinkable losses, and have…
by Marlena Fiol | Feb 7, 2020
I am really excited today to bring you the thinking of New York Times best-selling author Dr. Stephen Post, on issues that have driven his career. Stephen and I will be discussing a range of topics, such as whether we…
by Marlena Fiol | Feb 5, 2020
Before Saying Goodbye to Louis in London I’ve always hated goodbyes. Last summer, Ed and I put our eleven-year-old grandson Louis on a flight alone (as an unaccompanied minor) from London to Newark, with a plane change in Reykjavik. The three of us had just…
by Marlena Fiol | Jan 31, 2020
Has my façade of self-confidence and control fooled you? I love what Belinda Campbell, artistic director of Wit Incorporated says about such a façade: “I want to punch myself in the face. Maybe then my outside will be hurt and confused like my insides.”
by Marlena Fiol | Jan 31, 2020
In 1984, Rita and her husband Brad welcomed a healthy baby boy named Brandon into their family. Only five years later, Brandon began a 20-year battle with brain cancer. They watched as their son became increasingly mentally and physically handicapped….
by Marlena Fiol | Jan 29, 2020
My beloved Oregon coast reminds me how little control I have Some of the areas in which I have important life goals: Physical health. Career success. Marriage and family harmony. If you ask around, most people will readily agree that these are worthwhile areas…
by Marlena Fiol | Jan 24, 2020
Inspired by my interview with Susie Rinehart, this week’s blogs have been about bravery. I made some pretty brave statements: “I don’t wish to play it safe.” “I wish to continue taking on what life throws at me.” “I’d much rather try and fail, than…
by Marlena Fiol | Jan 24, 2020
Linda Atwell and her strong-willed daughter, Lindsey, a high functioning young adult with intellectual disabilities, always had a complicated relationship. But when Lindsey graduated from high school at nineteen, she got a job at a Goodwill and she moved into a cottage…
by Marlena Fiol | Jan 22, 2020
I just finished two weeks of tai chi training in Australia. At the end of the first week, each class put on a demonstration for an audience, sharing the tai chi form we learned during the week. My very talented teacher placed me in a…
by Marlena Fiol | Jan 17, 2020
Susie with her family Susie Rinehart is an award-winning author, champion ultra-runner, life coach, activist and mother of two young children. On June 30, 2016, she was diagnosed with a rare, aggressive tumor on her brainstem. Her doctor told her, “Without surgery, you…